So you've snagged the Aries man of your dreams, but now you might be wondering what it takes to keep him interested. Since this zodiac sign tends to crave adventure and have a short attention span, the task can be a challenging one, but well worth it if you can pull it off.
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Categories: Astrology Relationships. Learn more Avoid routine. Simply put, an Aries man will lose interest the moment his relationship with you becomes too routine or burdensome. If you sense yourself falling into a routine with him, mix things up to prevent him from getting bored.
Realistically speaking, there is no way that every day you spend with him can be completely unlike any other.
If you see each other on a daily basis, though, you should try to do something new with him at least once or twice a week to throw off any routine you've developed. Keep up with his pace. If you haven't realized it already, your Aries guy tends to like dates full of variety and adventure.
If you want to keep him interested, you need to keep up. On the off chance that your Aries asks what you would like to do, opt for a night on the town instead of a night in. If you absolutely must have a night in, make it as interesting as possible. Cook a meal using exotic and unfamiliar ingredients or rent an instructional DVD on Latin dance.
As the first sign of the zodiac, an Aries Man is always number one. Learn about the love life & personality traits of the Aries Man today. An Aries man is usually very sure of his sexuality. He is not afraid to show initiative and is very proud of his body, even when his belly spills a little over his belt.
Move fast. If your relationship is still in an early stage, you need to keep the momentum going. The Aries man is not a fan of taking things slow. Get ready to make him fall fast or not at all. Of course, you also need to be honest with yourself about how ready you are to advance the relationship.
He might be ready to take you to bed, but if you don't feel likewise, don't let his eagerness push you into something you don't want. If, however, you are ready to move forward, do so confidently and without hesitation. Surprise him. Even though the Aries man will usually take the lead, he will enjoy a relationship with a woman who can keep him on his toes, as well.
When he least expects it, surprise him with something new and exciting. If he gets a buzz of energy from being with you, he will want to be with you for as long as possible. One weekend, you could suggest trying something like bungee-jumping or rock climbing , especially if your Aries sweetheart has demonstrated an interest in similar activities in the past. You do not need to drag him there blindfolded, but simply suggesting the idea can be a nice enough surprise.
Give the gift of experience. When you want to give your Aries guy a great gift, take him out on an adventure instead of buying him something tangible. He is far more likely to appreciate the excitement of adventure more than some dull trinket. Let him do his own thing. An Aries man needs to feel free and independent, so he might not always invite you to take part in his latest and greatest adventure.
Try not to hold him back, though. A clingy woman is a turn-off for most Aries men.
An Aries man is not likely to beat around the bush and drop hints that things are over; if he loses interest, he will be honest about it. As such, you needn't worry that his sudden interest in hanging out with friends is a subtle indication that things are over between you. Be easygoing. Many Aries men have a tendency to be extremely bossy and do not appreciate being told what to do.
In other words, you will need to let him take the lead most of the time. If you want to have your way in the relationship, you need to suggest things in a way that can allow your sweetheart to claim credit for it later. The stubborn, arrogant, charming, flirty, and totally adventurous guy that you see in the movies. He wants to be the big man and will do anything to prove it. Aries also has an ego that needs attention, so keep your Ram happy with lots of physical affection and do your best to maintain the WOW factor.
Aries men are infamous when it comes to cheating and being unfaithful. Whilst it would be an unfair and negative stereotype to suggest that all Aries men are love cheats there does seem to be something that Aries men struggle with when it comes to remaining faithful. The Aries man is a very interesting astrological creature with many positive and negative traits. On the one hand, he attracts a lot of women because he is able to make up his mind quickly.
Of course, chances are good that the decision is completely wrong but that is really beside the point.
Aries men tend to attract females of a certain type. Of course, they get turned off by guys who are too obvious about it, they get turned off by guys who are too controlling, and they get turned off by guys that just want to use them. Many women are smart enough to stay away from guys that are really bad for them. However, they are suckers for guys who seem to be able to take all the complexities and all the confusions of life and able to make a quick and firm decision.
They especially admire guys who are able to make a decision and keep going regardless of the consequences. This is why the Aries man can be quite sexy to women. They size up women based on appearance. Women on the other hand tend to be multidimensional in sizing up a man.
If a man is not necessarily handsome but has other redeeming qualities, women are more likely to give that person the benefit of the doubt. Nothing in between.
The Aries man is endearingly authentic to a fault. Although it may seem crude, his open-book policy can actually create a space of greater trust.
He gets restless, itchy for the next adventure. His eyes rove, his imagination wanders.
To this independent sign, bachelorhood is a cherished prize. The Aries man is deeply driven by a fear of abandonment, so that should never be an issue between you. On Coney Island, reality is suspended. Who cares if nobody else lives that way? That only makes it more appealing for Aries.